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Weekly updates and stories about Jack Chittister

New Year’s 2009 Update January 1, 2009

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Jack will be THREE years old next month! Our little baby is now a big boy. Jack is very excited about turning 3, and very much wants a birthday party. “Happy Birthday” is one of his favorite songs. 

Jack had a good Christmas. This year, he knew to be excited. He would ask everyday “Is it Christmas?” and we’d have to say, “No, but it’s the Christmas season!”. Jack is a little confused now that Christmas happened. He wants it to be Christmas again. 

Our little man made out like a bandit, acquiring a kitchen and food to go in it, many Thomas trains and track, several books, an electronic piano, a froggie towel to go with his doggie towel, and more. You can read more about Christmas in this post.

For the record, Jack is 30 pounds and is about 35 inches tall. He communicates at a five year old’s level, speaking full sentences, using pronouns and prepositions, and making up stories. He’s also singing all the time! This Christmas, his favorite tunes are “Jingle Bells”, “Frosty the Snowman”, and “Away in a Manger”. He’ll put new lyrics in any song, turning “I Like to Move It” into “I like to do anything Mommy and Daddy don’t let me do”. 

Oh yes! The boy loves to get into trouble. He’s all about semantics. But he’s also very lovable, and gives hugs and kisses to humans and animals. He still loves to visit the pet store, and he’s getting along better with our neighbors’ dogs. 

Jack enjoys being outside more than anything. Because it’s colder and raining sometimes, he’s frustrated at being in the house. Of course, we could tell him that his friends on the East Coast don’t get to go out without a coat from October through April, but we don’t think he’ll understand that.

He does show an interest in going to Disneyland, which we hope to do towards the end of next year. 

Jack’s interests include Thomas & Friends (trains), WALL*E, trucks and dirt, music (especially boom-boom-bap), reading (reciting the books he’s memorized), cooking, and pretending everything. The kid has a serious imagination on him. 

Overall, Jack is a good kid, who is incredibly smart. He likes school, though due to our employment situations, he’ll be going part time in January. He has many friends, and we’re trying to make sure we cultivate these friendships. 

Oh, and although Jack has been asking for a baby, we have no plans to adopt in 2009. Ask us again in 2010. 

 

January Year-End Update January 16, 2008

Jack is 2 years old! We will celebrate his 2nd birthday with a small party on January 30. (We had to postpone the party due to illness.) His grandparents are here for his actual birthday on January 17. Jack is 28 pounds, 8 ounces. He is over 33 inches tall; he will not stand or lie still long enough to get a measurement. We continue to believe that he is the smartest baby boy ever. At age 2, most kids will have 50-70 words, but Jack’s vocabulary keeps growing. Fortunately, he has not yet learned to ask “Why?”, but we’re sure that’s coming. He routinely speaks in 3-5 word sentences. Some of his favorite new things to say are:

  • I like this, or I like “dat”, or I like this thing (where thing is food, a person, a toy, etc. with which he’s playing)
  • I want “dat”, or I want this.
  • Appetizer
  • Ginormous (as in, “Draw ginormous yucky trash.”)
  • Jamba Juice. Green Jamba Juice. (Jack’s favorite Jamba Juice is the Matcha Green Tea Blast, which we get twice a week.)
  • Mommy do it, Daddy do it, or Jack do it.

In October, Jack was a cow for Halloween. Mommy dressed up like a farmer to take him trick-or-treating. We only went to about 10 houses. Jack was a big hit, but he was too shy to say “trick or treat” very loud. This Thanksgiving, Jack was old enough to actually eat a turkey dinner, which he generally enjoyed. He requested “apple pie” for dessert. Jack began going to day care twice a week in November, in anticipation of Mommy getting a job. He made Mommy & Daddy a lovely Christmas present, which we will cherish for quite some time. Jack himself was completely spoiled on Christmas. However, he did not want to open his presents! To read more about our Christmas, see Robyn’s LiveJournal entry, Christmas at the Chittisters’.

Jack is still obssessed with trash, and Jack and Robyn seek out David the garbage man every Thursday morning and follow him around the block. The garbage man now stops and waits for them at the corners, so he’s sure they can see him picking up the trash. Thanks to the yucky trash, Jack can now accurately identify green, blue, and brown. Now Jack can correctly identify the major colors, although he sometimes gets orange and yellow mixed up. He loves to draw! He really likes it when Mommy or Daddy draw “ginormous” yucky trash cans, lollipops, or cups of tea for him.

Jack tries to be helpful by throwing things away in the yucky trash, getting shoes from the basket at the door, and putting his toys and bibs away.

So, according to the Milestone Charts, Jack should be able to: Name at least 6 body parts, make 2-3 word sentences, speak so that about half of his words are understood. About half of kids at age 2 are also able to talk about themselves, arrange items in categories, walk down stairs. More advanced 2 year olds can understand abstract concepts, jump, and be aware of gender differences. He can do all of that, except put items into categories. He’s learning about opposites, and understands that, even if two colors are different, they can still be blue. (There are 2 shades of blue and 2 of green on a drawing web site that we frequent, and he asks for “blue” or “other blue” and “green” or “other green.”)

Jack can count to 12, although he can’t always stop counting. For example, if the snowman has 3 buttons, Jack will sometimes count 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. He can recognize the existence of letters, such as looking at a sign and knowing it’s comprised of letters. He now calls them “ABCs”. He knows the entire ABC song. He recognizes the letter O by name. (Robyn thinks it’s because of Cheerios.) He also recognizes J (for “Jack”), and sometimes A and E.

Jack has the vocabulary and communication skills of a 3 or 4 year old, according to the milestone charts. He’ll at least try to say anything you ask him to say, including “apocalypse”. You haven’t heard cute if you haven’t heard Jack say “pocalypse”. Signing Time! and Johnny and the Sprites are his most-requested shows. He knows almost all of the body parts; he certainly knows the major ones – ear, eye, mouth, etc., and is learning some others – forehead, cheek, and chin being recent additions.

Jack also loves to sing! He’s getting better and better. His repertoire includes “Row Row Row Your Boat”, the ABCs, “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star”, “Old MacDonald”, “Rock-a-Bye Baby”, “Frosty the Snowman”, “Johnny and the Sprites”, and “How Much Is That Doggie in the Window?”. He also sings his own tunes while playing. He also correctly identifies ALL of the Winnie the Pooh characters, and he’s getting better at saying “Christopher Robin.” He now knows that Mommy, Daddy, Nana, Pa, and Great-Grandma have other names. He always knows Mommy’s, Daddy’s, and Nana’s names, but he’s not so consistent on the others. We are teaching him his last name. The day after Christmas, we were working on it, and he said, “Chi-ister. I like Chi-ister.” Again, so cute!

Robyn loves this story from September: Last night, in the Costco parking lot, Robyn said “Chocolate momma, Chocolate up the milk.” and Jack said “Drink milk. Black tan.” The line is from the book Black is Brown is Tan, which is a new favorite of his (and one we highly recommend).

Jack can toss a ball, but not catch it. He likes to play with our neighbors, who are 4, 6, 9, and 10. The 4 year old likes to hug Jack. He likes to run, and is actually understanding the difference between the sidewalk and the street. Another fun playtime activity involves feeding a baby bottle to his baby, his rabbit, his cow… really, all of the stuffed animals. He can sort shapes and put the blocks in the proper slots to get them back into the shape sorters. Jack also loves to play with Mommy’s scissors. Fortunately, she has the decorative ones that cut in waves, so no sharp edges. Of course, he really likes to spin the scissor holder around. I don’t think Aunt Ann knew she was getting Robyn a child’s toy when she gave her those scissors for Christmas in 2004. Jack likes to play peek-a-boo with us, himself, or inanimate objects. Sometimes, he’ll simply cover his own eyes and say “Where’s Jack?”. Hilarious! Jack likes pillow pits, which is a big stack of pillows, often on Mommy & Daddy’s bed, into which he is thrown or jumps. He likes to “fwoomp”. Jack is also learning to jump, and boy is he getting good at it! We began playing hide and seek about two weeks ago. Jack is getting much better at climbing, though he still hasn’t figured out how to climb out of his crib.

Jack enjoys the typical boy toys – cars (“car says vroom”) and trucks. He also likes puzzles, which he can do better and better each day. He seemed to master the shape sorter overnight. One day he couldn’t do it without help, the next day, Great-Grandma’s telling him how wonderful he is for putting the blocks in the right spaces. As part of putting things away, he will often take his toys and rearrange them in the play area or on the shelves. It’s really amusing to see him so seriously place each toy exactly where he thinks it should go. Then he generally knocks them all over or dumps them out of the container. He spied the Duplos that we were saving for mid-year (thank you Great Aunt Sue) and now dumps them over on his floor everyday to play with them. He really likes playing with other kids, so enjoys going to day care and playgroup.

Jack still chooses not to feed himself with a fork (but he does with a spoon). He plays with his food too much, stuffs it into his mouth and spits it out, it’s just too messy. Apparently, children in Guatemala don’t feed themselves until age 3, so we’ve got some time.

We got Jack a little seat for the toilet, and he sometimes asks to sit on it. He loves toilet paper and flushing, so we’re slowly getting him to think that the toilet is super-cool.

Jack doesn’t take off his own clothes yet, though he can and does take off his socks and shoes. Jack can now walk down the stairs, while holding hands, but doesn’t usually walk up (he climbs). Usually, he slides, scoots, or jumps down the stairs (with parental supervision of course). And while Jack loves to draw, he can’t draw anything recognizable. (Apparently, some children can draw straight lines at this age.) Mommy saw him kick a ball for the first time on November 12. Speaking of kicking, Jack has entered a violent phase, and is biting (through clothing) and sometimes hitting people for no discernible reason. We use time outs, which work relatively well, but not always. Something else Mommy isn’t entirely proud of, the day after Christmas Jack got up on a stool and started yelling “Damnit damnit damnit damnit!”. So, yes, Jack has learned how to repeat words and snippets of conversation.

And what is Jack eating these days? Crackers, especially goldfish (he can say “goldfish”). And “mac and cheese” which he says and signs. He simply loves mac and cheese, which fortunately means any pasta with cheese on it. He can say “pasta” and kind of signs it. Tomatoes are his favorite fruit. He can successfully eat an entire container of yogurt by himself. At Halloween, Jack discovered candy. Especially “lollipops”. We’re going to hide it all after his birthday and try to convince him that candy only exists from October to January. It might work.

We spent a couple of weekends in September sick. Jack got a cold, then gave it to Daddy and Mommy. Daddy got it the worst. Mommy introduced Jack to Jamba Juice, which he really liked! The last weekend in September, Jack got a stomach bug, then gave it to Daddy and Mommy, who were hit worse than Jack was. Jack got sick again when he started day care two days a week in November. He had a persistent sniffle that turned into a sinus infection on December 31. Max and Robyn have also been hit with colds, though Max’s is far worse than Robyn’s. So, we began the New Year ill. Hopefully, we will avoid so much sickness this year.

 

Christmas at the Chittisters' December 27, 2007

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(This is long, but the links are to pictures if you want to skip to those.)
Christmas Eve.

Max and I made plans to watch Waitress while he puts together the ball pit and slide that Great-Grandma got Jack for Christmas. Max ends up putting Jack down, because Jack throws a minor fit and wants Daddy, not Mommy. Mommy decides to dye her hair candy-apple-red for Christmas. I thought it would be fun. Anyway, both processes take much longer than expected, so it was 11:00 before I came down, to find Max still making the stuffing for Christmas Day. I hang out with him, helping where I can, and we get to bed sometime in the vicinity of 1am. Max could not put the ball pit together at all, because it is fairly large, but completely unassembled, consisting of about one thousand 6-inch blue rods with yellow tips at either end.
I told Max to put the ball pit box away and we’d construct it during his nap. Max said he’d just leave the box there, and it wouldn’t be a problem, what, with all the other presents.
Christmas Morning.
Jack woke up in the vicinity of 7:30. We both woke up with him. Usually Max wakes up with him, then I come down a couple of hours later. I wanted to be there for his first Christmas as a cognitively aware little man. So, he saw the ball pit box, and immediately wanted it, and the balls. We convinced him to open one present – which turned out to be penguin bowling from his godparents. (Very happy Mommy! I’ve been wanting to get him something like that, but couldn’t justify the expense.) He looked at it, then put it aside to get the balls out of the ball pit box. Then, we get him to open another present, which turns out to be a Nighty Night Doll, from us. He didn’t even look at it. Put it down and went to the ball pit box. And the camera said it had no memory, so I went upstairs to download the pics. (Turns out, I left the camera on video on 12/24 and got a 46MB video of Jack’s hand.) So Max starts putting the ball pit together in the kitchen.
Note: Our house is fairly small. We have a first floor that is one large room we use as a dining room/office/living room, and then a room in the back, which is the family room, and it flows into a small kitchen. We put the tree in the corner of that room, next to the TV, and all of the presents flowing forth from it. So, we were all in the same room, essentially.
Jack kept wanting to “help” Daddy, which was not a good idea. I tried to convince Jack to open another present. I literally had to force him to open something. I chose a gift at random, and he started to open it – a gift bag – and was so annoyed by the tissue paper that he went back to Daddy.
Well, I was able to convince Jack to play penguin bowling for about 20 minutes, then it was back to Daddy. Every time I said, “Let’s open more presents,” Jack would say, “No presents. No presents. Pit ball.”
I actually brought him over to the presents, and he started crying. Fortunately, he saw the owl – Barnes and Noble carries stuffed animals that Jack loves to play with, so, I bought him an owl, because it’s the only animal we don’t have. Max just stuck a red ribbon on its head. Jack was enamored of the owl, and made it fly and hoot. It carried over to later in the day, when he told Nana that she had to see his owl, and he walked all the way up the stairs to get it from his room.
So I had to get him dressed and took him to the grocery store, so we could get milk, orange juice, and hair dye.
You see, the candy apple red dye job was really, really bad. I forgot to comb it through. Consequently, I have a striped head – the front and top are candy apple red, the rest varies in color from auburn to burgundy. I’ve been wearing a kerchief on the few occasions I’ve been out. I’ll fix it tomorrow, in the light.
So, Raley’s was closed, but luckily, I remembered Safeway. Well, Safeway was apparently the only store open in Antioch. The parking lot was jammed – but people were really nice about it – and the lines stretched throughout the store. I figured Max better be done putting the ball pit together by the time we got back, as we’d probably be there an hour at least.
Jack and I meandered a bit and did some light grocery shopping. I could not bring myself to pay $5.98 for cereal that cost $3.88 at Raley’s, which meant I didn’t have any cereal this (Thursday) morning, but I digress. We got a muffin and an orange vitamin water, and went to wait in line. Well, they had just opened a new express lane, so I took third place behind a guy who just wandered up into line. I looked around, and got the attention of two women – both older, and one definitely a grandma – and asked if I should go to the end of the line for the original express lane, which stretched way into the produce section. They said, No, stay there.
Merry Christmas to us!
When we got home, Max had finished the ball pit. We discovered that 100 balls barely covers the floor of the pit, so Jack will get balls for his birthday. Jack had a blast, climbing all over the ball pit, sliding, tossing balls, sitting in balls, etc.
His birthmom called. It was while I was on the phone with her that I said, “I need to order more balls,” which she found hilarious! She has another new boyfriend. Her 17 year old sister had a baby girl last week. Fortunately, baby’s dad is in the picture and is steadily employed. Anyway – S’s son Iggy loved the drum set we sent. She was anxious to know what her present is. I ordered it in plenty of time but it still hasn’t gotten here. I have to call them tomorrow.
I think we got Jack to open a couple more presents, then managed to get him down for a nap.
I took a nap too, and wow did I have weird dreams. I hate dreaming when I nap.
My parents showed up just after Jack woke up, so I sent him down to them, and I washed my hair. Then, we sat down to dinner. Max always makes dinner. He’s very good at it.
After dinner, we did more presents. Jack opened one – a Boston Red Sox Mr. Potato Head from Nana (my mom). He wanted to open it and play with it, so I just distributed presents to Mom, Dad, Max, and myself, and we opened.
I was very happy with what I got this year. My grandmother got me my top three choices on my scrapbooking wish list (a mini-trimmer, decorative trimmer, and heart shape maker). My parents got us money (always appreciated). I also got a new diaper bag (the Royal Heinie), 4 reusable produce bags for the grocery store, socks with toes (I’ve been asking for them for years), some scrapbooking items from my aunt, some face cream (to which I’m likely allergic) from that same aunt, slippers from a different aunt, the Rhett Butler/Bonnie Blue Hallmark ornament, $15 iTunes card, Deceptively Delicious (from Jack’s godparents), a Boston Red Sox 2007 World Champions shirt (from the Swongers, one for each of us), and the Pooh Storybook Hallmark ornament. Jointly, Max and I received a NH ornament and cards from the Albuquerque hot air balloon festival.
We opened all of our presents and Jack was still playing with his Mr. Potato Head. Mom really wanted him to open the presents she had gotten him, so we distracted him long enough to convince him to open a couple more things. He wanted to play with each present he opened immediately. I think we got him to open three presents, plus his stocking, which was stuffed. Mom was getting impatient. She had gotten him a rocking horse, and wanted to bring it in from the car for Jack to see. I wanted to wait until Jack was ready to get another something – he was just so happy with each item he got, I figured we should use that to our advantage. Anyway, I finally said “OK”. The horse has buttons to make it whinny, neigh, and “clip-clop” for lack of a better term. My dad turned them on and Jack’s curiosity was piqued. He came into the front room, and yelled “Donkey!” We told him it was a horse. He didn’t care. He climbed right on. He played with it for quite some time, before my parents decided they needed to leave. So, we had dessert, after which they made a quick exit. We asked Jack if the horse had a name, and he said “Robyn!”. We’re teaching him that Mommy, Daddy, Nana, Grandpa, etc. all have more than one name. So, the horse may be Robi/yn or Donkey, we don’t know.
Jack seemed to want to open another present, so I asked him to open the one from our neighbors. I knew they had gotten him a garbage truck, and I knew that they would want to know what Jack thought. Well, Jack loved opening it, but, by this time (about 7pm), had had a lot of excitement. He was frustrated by how long it took me to get the toy out of the box. He couldn’t immediately figure out the buttons, etc. So, I asked him what he wanted, and he said, “Green one.” And I said, “You want a green garbage truck?” and he said, “Green garbage truck.” I smiled and chuckled and handed him another big present. He opened it, and it was a green garbage truck. We bought that before we knew the neighbors were getting him one. Theirs is orange, and it has a little garbage can with it. Ours is green and has a dumpster with it. They work completely differently. This made Jack very upset and he began to cry. He wanted the green truck to have a little can the way the orange truck did. And he wanted “David.” David is our trash man. He has been on vacation for the last month. Jack is very upset about this. Anyway, Jack was just crying about David and the “green ones” and I tried to help by giving him small items and wrapping paper to put in the trucks as trash. This made him happy until he couldn’t get all of the paper in, so he needed “Mommy do it” and the situation just went downhill from there.
So, we got him in his coat to go say thank you to the neighbors. This made him happy, as he got to go “outside” and see the “lights” and hug the neighbors. He came back and played with the orange truck without incident. Max wanted Jack to open the books and CDs that he had bought, so we did, and we read one of the books, then Jack completely melted down, and Max took him for a bath.
He still had about half of his presents wrapped under the tree.
December 26
I realized that to do thank you cards, I needed Jack to open all of his presents that weren’t from us or his grandparents. Through the course of the day, I got him to open those presents. He still has about 6 or 8 left, and we’ll hang on to those until Max’s parents come to visit in January. I effectively used bribery to get Jack to take a picture. I told him if he let me take a picture, he could have a chocolate from his “book” – an Advent calendar from the neighbors. Jack was happy with it, so Max gave him a chocolate and he was perfection for the photo shoot. I told him he was so good, he could have another chocolate after dinner.
After the photo shoot, I realized we needed to find places for these new things. We’re going to switch the rooms around, so the kitchen and the dining room are in the same place, and then the TV and all that will move to the front, which will then be the living/family room. But, until then, the toys need to be distributed. While doing that, I came to the realization that I could probably get more stuff (and work) done upstairs if Jack had a table and chairs in the computer room. Then I realized that he has a table and chairs outside. So, Jack and I brought them in and cleaned them off. Then, we went to the computer room to clean up. Jack was great. He only got on my nerves a little bit, and when he did, he went to his room to play. When he came back, I apologized for getting cross with him. He really helped, putting things in piles, taking stuff to different rooms as I asked, gathering trash. He had a plastic grocery bag, and he was stuffing papers into it, saying “I got cans”. I was confused at first – then I realized, my Dad comes over every week and takes aluminum cans out in a plastic grocery bag, while saying “I got the cans” over and over again. So, it was really cute. Then, it got to be bath time, and I realized that Jack hadn’t gotten his second chocolate. So I told him to stand at the top of the stairs and yell “Daddy, chocolate, please” which he did! Max didn’t understand, so had to go back down and get the chocolate. But Jack was great for the rest of the evening.
And that was Christmas at our house. How was yours?

 

Because I Can't Decide Anything Without a Committee November 24, 2007

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I took a few pictures of Jack for our holiday photo today. I actually like 3 of them, which I am posting here. As I apparently cannot choose the best pictures of my son because I am biased by knowing what was happening at the time, I need some help. Please tell me which one you like the best. Here are the shots:

Holiday Photo #1Holiday Photo #2Holiday Photo #3